This week in class we talked about presentation. First impressions are important life and can make or break opportunities that come our way. We spoke about nonverbal cues, table manners, and showing respect when speaking to others. Honestly, the word that came to mind when we were discussing all of this was decency. In this age of technological explosion and superficial relationships it is easy to, as Macklemore said, "hide behind the keys of a message board." So what? It's time to stand out, be yourself, and be GENUINE. I read a Inc. article on their website this week that is called, "6 Habits of Remarkably Likable People." Remarkably likable people; lose the power pose, embrace the power of touch, whip out the social jiu-jitsu, whip out something genuine, ask for nothing, and close genuinely. I was very impressed with the article and its focus on others, and not self, in life. Likable people genuinely want to know about others and want to help them. Now what? I think many times in life I fail to learn and grow because I simply do not apply the information that comes to me. So as for my presentation, I am going to practice being more genuine and interested in others and not expect things in return. I am excited to try these things out and just learn more from people.
Check out the link below for that article. It's the kitten's pajamas.
6 Habits of Remarkably Likable People
This was something that I also found very interesting. In the work place we are not only judged by our work, but also our mannerisms and behavior. People pay attention to how we act, talk, and present ourselves. This is why this class is such a big key for our success; it doesn't just teach us principles of work, but principles of success.
ReplyDeleteI like the post man! I think a lot of us get so caught up in technology that we forget how to be decent human being, especially when it comes to communication. I also completely agree that it's important to care about how others feel rather than how we feel. One of the best ways to communicate effectively with someone is by first communicating to them that you care. By doing that they'll be more receptive to what you have to say.
ReplyDeleteYou bring up some really great points! I think this links up really well with what Professor Middleton was saying in class the other day. When we are meeting people (in terms of networking, specifically) it is very important that we focus on them, and actually learn something about them, so that we can develop and maintain that professional relationship.
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